Hannah Shahabi and Roland Scheppske
25 July 2025
43m 58s
Mirror Mirror on the Wall
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43:58
Hannah Shahabi and Roland Scheppske
25 July 2025
43m 58s
00:00
43:58
This Episode is certainly the fairest of them all! Hannah and Roland sit down to discuss Narcissism. Narcissism is commonly referred to as a personality trait characterized by an inflated sense of self-importance, a constant need for admiration, and a lack of empathy for others. And, surprise! Hannah and Roland have the same Hot Take! Whether it's identifying the gaslighting, demystifying the buzzwords, or beating a tiktoker over the head with the DSM, put down the poison apple and pay attention. Call it vain, maybe even call it arrogant, but we KNOW you'll want to hear this.
00:00- Opening
00:17- Legal Disclosure
00:47- Personal Intro (Hannah)
00:58- Personal Intro (Roland)
01:13- I Don't Need Therapy, I Have Taylor Swift
01:23- Roland's Swiftie Song
01:37- Roland's Explanation
02:45- Verbiage is Important; no wasted time
04:28- Compartmentalization
04:44- Hannah's Swiftie Song
05:32- Hannah's Explanation
06:08- Working through monotony
07:13- Hopeful in the Mud
07:16- Hot Take Intro
07:23- Narcissism
07:31- Trigger Warning
08:35- Narcissist Label Can Only Be Used by Mental Health Professional
10:00- Hannah & Roland Have the same Hot Take!
10:36- No Normalizing Narcissism
12:21- Narcissism is not a giant spectrum
12:54- Narcissistic Personality Disorder/DSM Diagnosis
14:13- Frequency is Important to Notice
15:01- Selfishness/Arrogance is Conflated to Narcissism
15:45- Grandiosity is the keyword
16:40- Narcissism Buzzwords
17:54- Maladaptive, not just attention seeking
19:29- Need to be seen vs. Who Should See Me?
20:51- Manipulation
21:05- Gaslighting
23:29- Gaslighting is always pointed
24:57- Psychological Dominance
26:38- Again, NPD Only Be Used By Mental Health Professionals!
27:26- Behind the Couch & Under the Cushion
27:31- Behind the Couch (Hannah)
28:30- Psychoeducation Soapbox; Add Tendencies After
30:03- Compassion & Empathy
31:05- Recovery from Narcissistic Abuse
32:45- Behind the Couch (Roland)
33:15- Comorbidities & Differentials
34:04- Covert NPD or BPD?!
35:18- Therapy Wise- Confrontation is good
37:24- Under the Cushion (Hannah)
38:01- Gray Rocking
39:57- Better to Regulate Self than Fuel Fire
40:13- Under the Cushion (Roland)
40:26- Quiet Undertaking
41:24- Remove Self Before Falling Prey
42:40- Code Speech
43:35- Duty to Report Only Caveat
43:51- Outro
**This podcast does not serve as Mental Health Therapy with a Licensed Professional. This podcast is for educational purposes only. If topics from the podcast resonate with you, we recommend consulting a mental health provider for tailored support.