You Seem Fine Podcast

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Hannah Shahabi and Roland Scheppske

28 March 2025

49m 43s

Don't You Know That You're Toxic

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Hannah Shahabi, LPC and Roland Scheppske, LPC are two millennial therapists living in the DMV area. Hannah and Roland have often found themselves having lengthy conversations with one another and developing hot takes about different therapy topics. It was in these discussions that the two of them realized a lot of ways that they mentally envisioned these aspects, were through the specific lens of a millennial (i.e. those born between the years of 1981-1996). With the fun spin these life experiences give to their hot takes, both Hannah and Roland decided that being able to express these thoughts and appeal to others, who often find themselves in a “I’m fine, this is fine” mentality, would not only be fun, but also beneficial. Specifically, for listeners to be inspired to seek out and achieve betterment in their own therapy journey.

*THIS PODCAST IS NOT A SUPPLEMENT OR REPLACEMENT FOR THERAPY CONDUCTED WITH A LICSENED PROFESSIONAL*

00:00- Opening

00:17- Legal Disclosure

00:46- Personal Intro (Hannah)

00:58- Personal Intro (Roland)

01:12- I Don't Need Therapy, I have Taylor Swift

01:23- Hannah's Swiftie Song

01:58- Roland's Swiftie Song

03:01- Hannah's Explanation

05:03- Roland's Explanation

06:29- Hot Take Intro

06:35- Toxic Positivity Definitions

10:05- Positivity Practice is a Mindset

11:30- Zoom In & Out Example

12:34- Toxic Behaviors & Awareness

13:01- Nuanced Awareness

17:01- Societal Influence

18:49- Emotional Intelligence & Maturity

20:32- Hannah's Personal Experience

21:30- Roland's Personal Experience

23:12- Intentionality

24:51- CBT Mirror's

25:38- CBT Examples

26:55- Differences

28:00- Toxic Positivity with Self

29:49- Healthy Positivity

32:17- Takeaways

35:22- Behind the Couch & Under the Cushion

35:35- Behind the Couch (Hannah)

37:25- Behind the Couch (Roland)

39:44- Under the Cushion (Hannah)

43:02- Under the Cushion (Roland)

50:50- "Okay please hold while I...."

50:52- Outro

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